What should I do if someone asks me to keep a money request secret?

Trust and fear can make a request feel urgent. Taking a private moment to verify is caring, not disloyal.

What to do

• Do not send money or information while the conversation is creating panic or secrecy.
• Contact the person through a number you already had, or ask another trusted person to help verify the story.
• If you are helping someone else, focus on stopping further contact without blame or embarrassment.

Keep the decision in your control

You do not need to decide immediately whether a contact is genuine. End the unexpected conversation, find a trusted contact route independently, and ask for help before sending money or information.