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What should I do if a family member calls with an emergency?
A familiar voice is powerful, but voices can be copied or imitated. Pause, call the person back through a number you know, and involve another trusted person.

A caller may claim to be a child, grandchild, friend, lawyer, doctor, or police officer. The story may involve an accident, arrest, hospital, or travel emergency. Fear and secrecy are used to make you send money before checking.
Do not trust the voice alone
The FTC warns that scammers can use voice cloning to sound like a loved one. Even without technology, a caller may have personal details from social media or simply guess.
Tell the caller you will call back. Then contact the family member through a number you already know. If you cannot reach them, call another relative or trusted friend.
Ask and check
Ask a question an impostor is unlikely to answer, but do not rely only on that question. A separate call is stronger verification.
Be careful if the caller demands secrecy, gift cards, cryptocurrency, a wire transfer, cash pickup, or an immediate payment through an app.
Create a family plan before a crisis
Choose a family verification phrase that is not posted online. Agree that an unexpected money request will always be checked with a second person.
If money was already sent, contact the payment provider immediately through its official route and report the incident to the FTC.
The main idea
You do not need to investigate the sender yourself. Pause, verify the claim through a contact route you find independently, and use official help if money or information may be at risk.
Use the private Help FinderSources
- FTC: Scammers Use Fake Emergencies To Steal Your MoneyOfficial guidance about family impersonation and voice cloning.
- FTC: What To Know Before You Wire MoneyOfficial information about family emergency and wire transfer scams.
Sources last reviewed September 27, 2026.